THE issue with the Dodgers this year

I don't want to create another 35 page thread and get to the same damn place as before. BLF will stay cause if he is here now, he's always coming back. If you want to reply to him, fine. Idk how I'll act, and I don't know how Diablo/Darth will but just realize why people will have a short fuse towards the guy

 

if we got rid of everyone who had a bad month of acting like an erratic douche this place would be closed
you have personal issues with him, i have no idea of any morale being brought down other than when a stink is made about this dude making what seems like a normal post
if he is doing some secret guerrilla style digital attacks that im not seeing then that may be one thing, but i just see the dude posting about baseball and people trying to get him off their lawn
this is your lawn but just because you smell a turd doesnt mean you gotta be the type of guy to go step on it and spread the shit all over the lawn then sit in the middle under the sprinklers bathing in the mire and throwing handfuls of poo like a manpigchimp seeing double rainbows

 

i echo what doyer says

 

Remember when we were all cool with each other?

Is there a time machine to go back a year?

 

if there was, i'd go back and get rid of these genital warts

 

But would you be able to resist the temptation that got you them in the first place?

 

careful those ghosts go bump in the night

 

good point
i really didn't think it through that far :jethro:

 

it is very clear you are suffering from post traumatic gynocomastia related butthurt syndrome

 

clearly and clouded are weather
and my judgement is not mine to make
specially since none of this is mine to judge about
i was not there and i am not there, i am here and so are you
that was there and this is here
and everytime you bring what happened there up here you cloud my judgement
because all i knew was what yall had said, but now seeing how you react to BLF everytime he posts then yeah, the weather has been clouded
but you the one fanning the fire that causing the smoke
if you want to say that i smoke too much weed then go for it
you should understand that ive been told that since i was a wee lad
and i never smoked a bit
im just naturally clouded up

now i used to go to this place where this guy i used to know also goes
we had bad blood from the past
it was awkward and so i left
i was not big enough of a man to figure out and handle my psychological issues at the time
so i could not be around the dude without giving him some kind of passive aggressive mark
same for him
we had become oil and water
so i left and the group survived
because when you have a couple of dudes always throwing shit at each other eventually the others in the group start finding other friends to hang out with
they get tired of the stench
so take one for the team by learning how to deal

im not telling you to leave so read between the lines, im telling you to figure this shit out because you are not a kid but one of the older guys here who many respect
the reason we as a culture cant play tag anymore or cant play in the sandbox is because sometimes we cant leave the playground at the playground
you messed up your playground and now you want to do the same here?

if BLF causes the harm to DSP you claim then it will be your own self fulfilling prophecy.
or you can just learn to ignore the dude until you get over whatever mean things he said
sooner or later he will realize he is being a douche and will also understand
so why not just save everyone a lot of trouble and go to your neutral corners and chill the waters a bit

 

dude, i dont have a discussion forum
this is just where dudes that like to hang out hang out
when they dont like hanging out here they wont
no one is here for my sake and sports discussion can be had anywhere

this is essentially something craig manages, irish moderates, and i visit just like the rest of you
most of you are dodger fans that are a group that come together
and you have divided yourself many times for many of the same reasons
so please spare me the bit about people voting with their feet
that isnt my worldview and not something that motivates me
nor pitting the dodger users against BLF and compelling us to make a choice
im not going to tell you what i think about that, but anyone with a memory knows that i dont mind whistling by myself
but you keep making threats and i think thats not very nice

 

I apologize if what i say offends guys.
But you have a warped sense of how these things work.
You dont forgive someone because they apologize.
You dont contemplate or worse yet talk about the fact that someone hasnt apologized to you once that thought jumps into your head.
These are things people learn from Katherine Heigl movies or sappy songs on Coast 103.
You forgive. Period.
If you dont you keep twisting the knife in your own guts over and over and over again.
And you drag everyone down with you.
You guys wanted a lot of liberty and you got it.
And people been acting like idiots for a long time all over the board.
Yall want to single this guy out because he flipped out, fine.
But you all then must be judged by the same charges you lay on him.
None of this is about being a man, its about being a human being and not a courtesan slave who follows the courtly protocols.
You guys either need to understand that you operated out of bounds of DSP then brought that mess here where a giant thread of crap erupted into everyones demons coming out to play like in any old myth.
Now you gotta lay in the bed all of you made.
Declare a truce, bygones, roll out doves, whatever you want... but that period of time where a bunch of people acted like horrible people is considered an aberration
Stop agonizing over spilled milk and take responsibility by simply deciding to be silly men who sometimes do silly things and you need people to cut you some slack and forgive you so should do the same and get through it.

 

you dont know what you are saying
when you say what you just said you are making a threat by insinuation
you are holding a mythical conspiracy of you not being the only one thinking all of this over our heads like we better do something about your observations or you guys will continue to think about all of this important internet business
i really dont think you know what you are saying darth
because this is all very very silly
but the beauty is that everyone has silly silly moments once in a while
so no worries man, just get through whatever it is thats got you stuck on rubbing this guy out of the site
besides its a dumb move
if he wants to be a douche he can always sign up a million times under aliases and harass you
we have had people do that in the past and its no fun, specially for the mods who have to deal with it
besides BLF im sure knows he was all sorts of wrong but probably feels like a cornered rat at this point
yall want him to just kill himself metaphorically speaking like the rat does when cornered
it either has a panic attack and dies or it scratches and bites back at the other rats trying to eat its cheese
the best way for adults to deal with this situation is to remember you arent rats
and that maybe BLF might calm down once yall calm down and at some point he may even own up and be apologetic and humble
there is no ordered sequence for this kind of thing, we dont use a rulebook about about who should apologize first
that leads to all kinds of fake apologies
yall like hypocrisy?
you apologize as soon as you want to get over things, regardless of what the other person says or you think he feels
even if you think the other dude is more at fault
it usually compels the other dude to see his own mistake and also come clean
ahh the bowels move around and a little air is blown and everyone is happy
this is simple rule, it simplifies lots of things