worst day of my life

Discussion in 'Los Angeles DODGERS' started by irish, Aug 14, 2015.

  1. IBleedBlue15

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Irish. Like others have said, I hope we can be here for you to get through this tough time. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
     
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    Sorry for your loss Irish. 93 years huh? That is amazing. Sounds like you guys had quite a close, strong relationship. I rarely drink now a days but I will be having one tonight in honor of your father. Like many have already said, it will take time to heal but in time you will. If you need anything we're here for you mate.
     
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    Much love to you Irish. My thoughts are with you and I hope that you can transition away from sorrow as soon as you can. Let the emotions go through you, but know that your dad, much like everyone else who passes in our lives, is always with us. The physical aspect is only a small portion of our presence, the soul, the memories the energy is what remains.

    If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

    My love, thoughts and energy are with you brother.
     
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    Cheers to you both. I'm having one for you.

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  5. irish

    irish DSP Staff Member Administrator

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    again, just wanted to thank you all for the kind words and support
    going to take a while but i'll be okay
    drank more than i should have tonight
    but it helped numb the pain
    thanks again guys
     
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    Just read this. So sorry for your loss. Like many others my Dad was an asshole much of his life as well. He was also an amazing father. It did take a while for him to get his shit together and to my good fortune, he did. Growing up my Dad's demons definitely won their fare share of battles, fortunately for me, they lost way more often than they won. I was a grown ass man by the time my Dad finally did get himself straight, and although you'd think it'd be too late, it turned out to be just in time. My Dad wound up becoming the best friend I ever had. Of course, that's the way life is. He died a few years after all the drama ended . Still way too soon though. I will forever have every thing he ever taught me (or tried to) wedged in my memory. Every moment shard, every lesson learned, every tear spent, every wish unfulfilled. The best father's are always with us Irish. Tonight I tip one for your Dad.

    Cheers!
     
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    So sorry to hear this Irish :/
    My best wishes to you and your family
     
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    I dont relate well to death, but i do to life.
    Your dad lived a lot of life im sure.
    And he had a son that is a pretty swell dude.
    So big ups to your dad.
    He already won the game.
     
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    Jeez, sorry to hear, irish. Wishing you find comfort in your knowledge of everything he added to this world.
     
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    Ah Irish, so sorry to see this happen to you. Hang in there my friend.
     
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    Haven't been around all weekend so just finding out what happened. Sorry for your loss Irish. Losing a loved one is never an easy thing to cope with but stay strong. Sounds like your dad lived a long, eventful life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
     
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    thoughts and prayers Irish..

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  13. CapnTreee

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    Off to that great Guinness tap in the sky..

    Best wishes lad keep her steady at the helm and you'll get through fine... circle of life stuff.

    As you may recall I lost my Dad last April, he was a philandering prick so I didn't care so much. Mom's pushing 80 and getting more frail by the day so that one is really gonna hurt when the time comes.

    Be steady at the helm is all we can do... and keep up the lubricant it drowns out the bearing screams...:beer: :capn:
     
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    See you cats in a week. My wife's father just passed away. We scramble to Panama on Monday. I'll be back in a week. She will stay longer.
    I've seen her cry, I've made her cry. I've never seen her sob like this, so much she eventually passed out.
    Say a prayer for her.
     
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    Much love to you and her, buddy. Be a rock for her and selflessly love her because you love her, with no expectations back. People never forget when you are thoroughly there for them in situations, especially your spouse.

    Sending calm and loving energy to you and her.
     
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    Sorry to hear about Mrs. Boo's pops. Take care of your wife and family and we will see you when you return. Thoughts and prayers go out to the Boo family.
     
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  17. CapnTreee

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    Take care of what is important Boo, because she is.





    ole DSP will still be here a squabbling about all manner of nonsense while you're gone
     
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    Safe travels, Boo. I know you'll take care of momma, cause momma takes care of you. We just hope the both of you come back safe and stronger than ever.
     
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